The local rainbow support group occasionally published contact details in the classified section of the newspaper, and for months I scanned The Southland Times waiting for the next listing. One, for 25 years a manager of an engineering firm, who speaks only on the condition of anonymity, openly expresses a sense of persecution. Photo: RNZ. Brethren and their companies are encouraged to buy their supplies, groceries, petrol, internet, insurance - the whole range of goods and services - from companies that give cash back to the church through a range of kickback arrangements. Rob McLean, who was excommunicated from the church over a decade ago, said for many older Brethren, the commercial control of the church was history repeating itself. Life as an Exclusive Brethren had its good sides. Ship visits to New Zealand became increasingly frequent in the 1860s, and Exclusives back in the British Isles began to hear reports that the New Zealand Brethren were deviating from accepted norms. Thompson laments a love betrayed: At the end of the song, Mum stopped to answer my questions about blackboards. The most serious charges were dropped. Darby held that true Christians should separate not only from the churches, which were corrupt, but also from those who were impure in faith or morals. This examination delves deeper into the groups past, revealing the Brethrens 19th-century origins in the United Kingdom, their fractious history, their extraordinary use of scripture to control members and dissidents, and their lucrative business and financial arrangements. Perhaps you're an uncle by now. The resources we highlight reflect a variety of perspectives. Members control a network of secret trusts, their 8000 members earn. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. "We are accused of being secretive; it's more that we want to keep our heads down and live according to our convictions. All members must follow the rigid code of behaviour and rules that govern the contact they can have with outsiders. A few years ago a review prompted a round of visits to ex-members. A flowchart illustrates how the Exclusive Brethren - or Plymouth Brethren Christian Church - money-go-round works. Yet the Brethren experience hovers in my periphery; a mesh of traumatic memories. Simmons has not gone quietly and is paying the price. The man, who has name suppression, was being considered for parolelast week. Brethren can't vote but are encouraged "to express a moral viewpoint of legislation" to politicians, and to pray for the guidance of "right Government which is clearly of God". The Brethren faith was introduced to New Zealand in 1850, and is now led by Greg Mason. [7] Unlike Darby, he did not believe in maintaining insularity from non-Brethren Christians, and preached in churches of many denominations. Pastorlink was established by and for Brethren pastors. My gaze rested on them for a few seconds before I looked away. Initially, they saw no need for any but the simplest pattern of organization, and their separation from all existing churches was not conceived as a negative decision, but rather as the only basis on which the unity of true Christians could be established. It's easier to control people when they're addicted. As a child growing up in Invercargill, my grandma told me about how, when the rule came in that sect members shouldn't have pets as they represented an emotional bond that could come between you and God, the family went and drowned their cat in the river. Based on more than two years of research, this comprehensive study uncovers the lesser-known facts behind one of historys most enigmatic and influential Christian sects. The expectation was that you would buy a house, marry a Brethren girl, settle down and raise a Brethren family, and the cycle would rinse and repeat. I held my grandma close dear, sweet Grandma, who always kept a stiff upper lip, but not today and we wept in each other's arms for half an hour. It was an ill-advised attempt at escape. Most of the jokes went over my head. Meanwhile, ex-Brethrens here and overseas are telling of the pain of being shunned by family still in the church. Switzerland, Sweden, North and South America, UK, Australia and New Zealand. Through SGnLS (Southland Gay and Lesbian Support) I met other gay people, and realised I was not alone in the world. I went undercover for 60 Minutes to help expose an international fraudster wanted by the FBI, gaining his trust while wired with a hidden camera. I had further meetings with Bruce Hales, and he told me to consult a Brethren doctor to receive treatment for my "condition". The Brethren in New Zealand have diversified greatly in the last generation. It also produces The Silver Bulletin. Transcript Includes the following: Exclusive Brethren news tracker & news archive. What later became the GPH Society Limited originated in May 1900 when Edward Whitehead opened the Bible and Tract Depot at Palmerston North,[27] with the purpose of publishing Christian literature to serve primarily the Brethren movement in New Zealand, but also the wider Christian community in both New Zealand and Australia. A Blenheim church member in his 80s, who wassentenced totwo years and four months in prison for historic sex offences against his nephew, was withdrawnfrom after he was jailed in July 2017, according to the ex-member. Brethren women are distinguished by their white or blue headscarves and long hair -- which must never be cut. With no TV or stereo, most kids learnt to play instruments and played together. 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Now 53, he's in his second marriage and runs a cartage business in his hometown, Christchurch. (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); The Exclusive Brethren movement is an extremist branch or sect of the Plymouth Brethren. Documenting their emergence onto the Australian political stage in 2004, this investigation shows how the Exclusive Brethren made their presence known through enormous contributions to conservative campaigns, assiduously lobbying politicians and maintaining a close relationship with the prime ministerall without casting a vote themselves. I was with other young people from the church and couldn't risk being found out. "It was known in my local church that I wasn't subscribing to it and I was treated with disdain, like a black sheep. This is ironic, because among the activities forbidden for members of the movement are such things as watching television, listening to the radio, reading newspapers and using computers and the internet. There'll be a dinner and dance, a "mystery day" and lots of socialising - "certainly not religious, just a fun weekend". We urge you to wait. Most casual observers would say I've moved on. For him, too, the forced distancing from his parents hurt the most. * A national trust, run by three of the Secret Seven who bankrolled the anti-government pamphlets last year, now operates 15 regional campuses under the umbrella of Westmount School. In April 2009, finally ready to make my move, I called a meeting with the priests and told them I was leaving the Exclusive Brethren. I had no plans, and nowhere to go. [25] The Stewards' Foundation, established in 1955, lends money to Brethren assemblies, institutions, workers, and missionaries.[26]. Falling into journalism was an astonishing stroke of luck. The worldwide leader of the Exclusive Brethren, having ruled since his father John Hales died in January 2002, he had a penchant for good food and an even greater penchant for good whisky. Here is what we wrote about the former site, which can still be viewed at the Internet Archive. BORN into the controversial Exclusive Brethren cult that outlaws birthdays, pop music and women wearing trousers or make-up, Jessie Shedden, 34, needed every ounce of courage to plan her escapeR A few weeks later that same reporter got in touch and asked if I would consider telling my story on 60 Minutes. Until then my transgressions had been minor offences that could be excused away; forgiven, with a warning not to repeat my mistakes. Christian Community Churches of New Zealand, The Brethren and the Charismatic movement, Christian Community Churches of Australia, "The Significance of J.G. "This is how they treat everyone, they treat them like s***," the ex-member said. They're allowed to talk to us now," says Adrian. The noble ambitions fell further apart in subsequent decades as Darby's adherents squabbled over how to interpret and enforce his ideas, leading to a separatist, insular system as controlling as any cult. I've kept in touch so the kids know them. It's understood he was allowed back into the church after his sentence finished. Another ex-member, whom RNZ has agreed not to name, said he managed to hold onto his position in the family business, despite huge pressure from church leaders - but said many others were not so fortunate. A cult-like church that exerts almost complete control over its members has metastasised into a multinational corporation with massive buying power. Dad held her arms behind her back as she sobbed, struggling to break free for a hug. Instead I felt condemned to struggle against the essence of who I was. Over the following year, back in Invercargill, I gradually withdrew from Brethren life. When the Herald on Sunday approached Dargaville Brethren businessmen to set the record straight about their way of life, most politely dismissed us. It was a decision that changed my life. Divorce is rare. The secretive, cult-like church says its members volunteer their time to contribute to society, but an RNZ investigation has found hundreds of thousands of dollars were sent every year to a Sydney. Russell Stewart, photographed by police, shortly after he left the scene of a fatal crash at Baylys Coast Rd, Northland, in June 2016. She also volunteered to take me out for a drink "and tell you all about how much more fun it is being an evil outsider or whatever the heck those loonies call us". At one church service it was said the spirit of God departed from us if we ever crossed the threshold of a cinema the next time I was at the movies I stepped backwards and forwards through the doorway to see whether it felt any different (it didn't). Once more I find myself a free agent a chrysalis emerging for another cycle of reinvention. Little did we know we'd make the evening news. "They apologised for the way they'd been treating us. An anguished wail from an aunt still rings in my ears. Although some run computer businesses, the technology is frowned upon for private use because it has the power to employ the satanic number 666. Apologetics Index curates research resources on religious movements, cults, sects, world religions and related issues. Since 2003 an Exclusive Brethren trust has set up 15 year 7-12 schools here, teaching about 1000 children. "It's beentraumatising but from my perspective and my family'swe've been very free in a Christian spirit to forgive Russell. In addition, it appears that the movements leaders are hypocrites a trait common to cult leaders. No member is allowed to eat in the same room as a worldly person, they are forbidden from owning a pet and they are restricted from socialising with anyone outside of the Exclusive Brethren. He's organising a reunion for "ex-peebs" next Easter, and is expecting 150. From tear gas to television, Craig Hoyle has had quite the ride since leaving the Exclusive Brethren sect 10 years ago. The church is strictly controlled by a central authority. Enter your email address to subscribe. A sermon made by Halessoon after the June 2016 crash, and leaked to Stuff, shows the church's views onimprisonment. "We don't want anybody to get into jail. He was sympathetic to my plight but made clear there was no place for gay people, warning me "never accept yourself for who you are". We don't look down on other Christians because they don't live like us. Growing up in the Exclusive Brethren meant missing out on a lot of things other children took for granted. The Exclusive Brethren are now divided into a number of groups, most of which differ on minor points of doctrine or practice. []. (The terms "conservative" and "progressive" are often informally used to describe the emphasis, or lack of emphasis, that Brethren assemblies and individuals put on matters of doctrine, worship, and church order which distinguish them from other Evangelical Christians). Other members who have been through the justice system have also been "withdrawn from" when members are ordered to sever ties completely with the accused. It's the same in 40 towns around the country, from Gisborne to Cust. The medication left me lethargic and unhappy and I stopped taking it after a few weeks, although I had enough repeats on the prescription to last for a year. The leader is regarded as a person of inherent moral power, following in the tradition of the leaders of the past and upholding their teaching in such a way as to lift the membership out of the world of wickedness. Exclusive Brethren Information provided by Reachout Trust, a Christian apologetics and countercult organization The Exclusive Brethren Excellent overview by the BBC. Together they employ at least 60 people, either Brethren or Christian. 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Despite ongoing external and internal attacks, from 1827 onwards, a continuing spiritual ministry opened up many precious truths , The main objective of this site therefore is to, The headline refers to a story in the Sunday Star Times (New Zealand). I wish him well.". It remained within the Brethren movement. I left Hong Kong on October 31 last year, the 10-year anniversary of my final excommunication from the Exclusive Brethren. What's behind it all will come out in time. Our mission is to educate the media and help those who have left and those who wish to leave a vicious regime that is causing increasing concern world-wide. Complete rejection, and uncritical acceptance, of this movement are both minority positions among New Zealand Brethren today. Sarah and I got caught up in a media scrum with the Kardashian family while filming an unrelated story in Yerevan, and joked to local Armenian reporters that we'd come all the way from New Zealand to see Kim and Kanye. Apart from a three-year period (1880-1883) in Dunedin, Forlong based himself in the Whanganui/Manawatu region. 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My kids don't know their grandparents as grandparents. Pro The Exclusive Brethren Christian Fellowship (Pro) Note: The site has since been renamed to plymouthbrethrenchristianchurch.org, to reflect the movements misleading name change, in 2012. I saw a GP for a second opinion; a white-haired doctor who brusquely imparted there was nothing wrong with me, and "your emotions are a completely normal response to an extreme situation". Brethren run at least 12 firms in Dargaville - mostly in trade and farm supplies - many clustered in an industrial complex on the town's southern edge. According to Statistics New Zealand there were 20,406 Brethren in New Zealand in 2001. I wrote "I'm gay" on a piece of paper and pushed it across the table to the priest. [], Many Exclusive Brethren work in Brethren owned companies in order to reduce contact with outsiders. I love being a journalist and wouldn't trade it for anything. 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